Dupuytrens Contracture And
"A Man Whose House Is On Fire"
Here's a little story that expresses some of the thoughts and
frustrations of someone with Dupuytrens contracture:
A man came home one day to find his
house was on fire. He ran to his neighbor's house and yelled,
“Hurry, call the fire department. My house is on fire!”
The neighbor came to the widow and replied in a professional
voice, “Be calm, and try not to worry. Research shows that a
fair number of house fires never really get to be all that bad.
Perhaps you can just learn to live with the partial use of the
house you will be left with, and leave it at that. So in my
opinion you should just watch the fire for a while and see how
bad it is going to be before you bother the guys at the
firehouse. I suggest you just wait and see if you will be one of
the lucky ones.”
The first man replied, “Are you kidding? What if it gets so bad
I can’t live in what is left of my house after the fire stops.
And why should I settle for just part of a house? I can’t take a
chance like that. The fire is small now and it’s on the first
floor, so maybe I can do something to take care of it. If you
won’t call the fire department for me, then I'll just use a
garden hose to help myself.”
The neighbor casually replied, “I
advise against it. There have been no double-blind or cross-over
scientific studies to show that a man with a single garden hose
can consistently put out a small house fire. Some studies have
shown that it works, but then again there are other studies that
show that it doesn’t work. There is so much controversy about
this subject that the experts advise against doing anything but
waiting to see if the fire goes out by itself. I think we need
more studies in this area. I really can't explain why some
indicate that it does help, and others show it does not, but
that’s just what the studies are showing right now. I hope you
understand that I don't want to go out on a limb and recommend
something that might not actually work. With no official
government agreement how to handle your situation, to protect my
reputation for always being right, and to prevent you from suing
me for giving you false hope that you can put out your own fire,
I am going to suggest you do nothing right now. That’s about the
safest advice for me I can give to you. Can't you just wait a
while longer for more research to actually prove your garden
hose idea is correct? Research is being done right now to
develop a new chemical that can be used to put out small house
fires. Of course, any new chemical will be expensive and will
only be available through authorized outlets that will have to
charge a lot of money for the product, but in time, it could be
helpful in a situation like this.”
The first man shouted back in a panic, “Are you crazy? My house
is on fire right now, and it is getting worse by the minute. I
need help right now. I can’t wait for your studies and your
research to prove anything, and I can’t wait for any new
chemical. If some of the studies show that the garden hose will
put out a house fire, or control it to some degree, then why
shouldn't I give it a try? Maybe in time this will be the group
that will be proven correct. I would be a fool to not give it a
try because it might be just the right thing to do. I know --
maybe I can get a few garden hoses going and even increase the
odds it will work. Maybe it will completely put out my fire. If
it works, look at what I have gained – if it doesn’t work, who
cares, at least I tried.”
The neighbor then explained to the
worried and agitated man, “Not to worry: Be patient. You know,
you are really getting worked up. If your home is destroyed –
and becomes useless to you – you can always get a contractor to
fix it. Think of it as your back-up solution. If your house
becomes useless, just get it repaired. I've heard that some of
the houses turn out pretty good.”
The first man snapped back, “You are
nuts! Why should I let this fire get so bad that I even need a
contractor? Some contractors are better than others; what if I
get a bad one? I’ve heard horror stories about dealing with a
bad contractor. What if there are problems with the contractor's
work? What if my house isn’t as good after his repair work as
before the fire started? Even good contractors sometimes have
problems with their work that even they can’t explain. I could
be stuck for the rest of my life with bad results. No, common
sense tells me the best thing I can do now is to protect what I
have and try to avoid dealing with any contractor if I can.”
The neighbor leaned against his doorway and told the frustrated
man, “I guess the garden hose idea could do no real harm. But
you could be wasting water, you know. Be careful that you do not
use more water than you actually need. Now, I've read some
studies about using too much water to put out a fire, and... ”
The first man didn’t hear the neighbor’s last bit of logic. He
was now running back to his burning house and the garden hose.
He shouted back to the neighbor, “Maybe you would feel
differently if this was your house on fire. I’ve got to get busy
and try to help myself if you can't offer me better help than
that. I have to do what makes sense to me, even if there is no
research to prove me right.”
The man whose house was on fire hooked up all the hoses that he
could find, to increase his chances for success. He felt less
stressed as he got busy doing all he could in a bad situation.
Who knows, maybe he even put the fire out.
Do all that you can, as early as you
can, to allow your body the best opportunity to “put out the
fire” of Dupuytrens contracture.
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